Learning from kids

I reckon you can learn loads about the way people listen, from kids. On Tuesdays I help lead a youth group at church. We have a short 10 minute talk each week in which we try and teach them something from the Bible. I've learnt a heap of stuff as I've seen the way the kids react to things, and what they particularly pick up on... or not.

Kids have hopelessly short attention spans. Those who come along to our youth group are not used to sitting in church at all - they all live on a council estate round the corner. They stop listening pretty quickly and they'll let you know - once they're bored they'll start looking round the room, poking the person next to them, talking amongst themselves, or beginning small brawls.

I don't think that's too different with adults. Yes, they're much more polite. They'll even cover their mouths when they yawn. But look at peoples eyes as a long sermon drags on, and you'll see that glazed look which says they're a million miles away. They're just like kids - they've got more pressing things to think about.

How do you tell people about Jesus, when they don't want to hear? Let's get practical here - I know it's the Holy Spirit who opens people's eyes, and gives them a thirst for God, but how do we use the gifts he's given us to communicate better?

The same I think applies to adults as to kids:
  • Use words they understand - I've got to work on cutting out Christian jargon big time. I've started using a simpler translation of the Bible (like the CEV or the Message) as part of preparation - the vocabulary used (there's an unnecessarily complicated word right there!) is much easier to understand.

  • Use visual aids - Pointing out the splinter in someone else's eye when you've actually got an actual plank in your own eye is far more powerful than just reading out the words.

  • Get into the story - act it out if it's a parable, or narrative. People still have imaginations, so get them to use them!

  • Keep it interactive - quite why we don't have more actual interactive questions in sermons, rather than just rhetorical ones is beyond me. Perhaps it because many congregations are just too big? It keeps people awake, and encourages them to engage.

  • Use good humour - a funny example which illustrates something is much more memorable than a plain example. That's another one to work on...

The good news of Jesus is too good to go unheard simply because we're lame at getting it across. The word of God is living and active and sharp - let's not suffocate it or blunt it.

Do not love the world

Another talk I've found hard-hitting this week. C J Mahaney on 1 John, "Do not love the world". Why do we make next to no impact on our colleagues/neighbours/friends as Christians? What are we really living for? How do we live in the world, not be of the world, and yet reach the world? It's all very relevant stuff and ties in with a Tim Chester blog post quoting Josh Harris (is that confusing?), which I read earlier this week, also very convicting.

You can listen to the whole sermon here. There's a fairly long (but in parts amusing - "men, you should not own parakeets") preamble bit, but then it gets going properly.

These guys are claiming 'worldliness' (Christians getting more and more sucked into behaving like those who live against God, and believing what they believe) is the big issue for our generation. Do you agree? Where's the line between reaching out and just fitting in? What do you think?

Wonderful Grace

Back in 2005 I heard Terry Virgo speak at Forum on God's grace explained in the book of Romans. While I'm sure I'd heard something on Romans before that, and had certainly read it, I was blown away afresh by the liberating truth that Jesus has done it all. I can live here on earth as a conqueror, no, more than a conqueror, because my sin and guilt has all been heaped onto Jesus in my place!

Jesus is wonderful, he's amazing. He's my rescuer, he's my saviour, he's taken a whopping great sledgehammer and shattered the chains of sin that tied me down. I can't think of a better place that explains how utterly and fully Jesus has brought me from a hollow existence of death to a glorious full new life than Romans.

I came across similar talks by Terry Virgo today on Grace, and would massively recommend them. They're only 15 minutes or so each, but it's brilliant stuff because it's so focused on Jesus. Listen here.

Strip Church

Was amazed to come across this project connected with x3watch (a
Christian internet monitoring program): http://stripchurch.com/

A church on the Las Vegas strip reaching out to gamblers, strippers,
porn stars etc.

When the church not only campaigns against the sin, but also reaches
out to those enslaved to/addicted to it, then the world sits up and
takes notice.

Reaching Lapdancers

I'm part of St Ebbe's Church, Oxford, and on Sunday some friends from church managed to make the front page of the Oxford Mail along with the headline "Oh-Porn All Hours". Bad pun, and not a great sentiment. It was in reference to a pub, the Thirst Lodge, 20 metres from the church front door, which has recently obtained a license to have lapdancers.

We're protesting against the license as a church, and there's plenty of good reasons to do so. But in a moment that was both profound and also slightly cheesy, I looked down at my little black wristband and wondered... What Would Jesus Do?

Make no mistake - Jesus hates sin. He talks about Hell more than anyone else in the Bible, using disturbing and graphic language, of burning bodies, and insides being eaten out by worms. Truly horrifying.

And from Jesus' teaching there's no doubt that perversions of God's good design for sex, like lust, pornography, lapdancing and prostitution will land people in Hell.

Yet when he was on earth, Jesus was notorious for hanging out with those kinds of people - prostitutes, crooks, cheats. He went to their houses for dinner. He talked with them, ate meals with them. The religious people of the day were disgusted with him, the man who hung out with 'sinners'.

Why did Jesus even go near these people?

It was because he loved them. He saw their need to be rescued from their slavery, their addictions, their obsession with sin. They were guilty as Hell, and they deserved complete punishment for their sins, yet Jesus went in amongst them to offer them forgiveness and life, in and through himself.

It's easy to distance myself from such obviously wrong, distasteful and sinful lives. But without Jesus, that would be ME, no doubt. By nature I've got a lust for sin, a craving for anything that displeases God yet promises cheap pleasure. But Jesus saved me, and tells me to fight that sinful nature, for the sake of greater joy in relationship with him.

Jesus came to save me, and Jesus came to save lapdancers.

How are we at St. Ebbe's going to reach the people of the Thirst Lodge?

Listen up: God's speaking to you

If I heard God speaking to me, right out of heaven, I would sit up and listen. I'd certainly be quicker to obey what he said, and there'd be a greater sense of fear towards God faced with absolute confirmation of his reality, knowing all my faults, failings, and feeble efforts to live his way.

I need to repent of that attitude of partial unbelief, of stagnancy, and laziness. Because God has spoken to me - his words are right there in the Bible, and I can be just as certain it's what he wants from me as if he'd bellowed down instructions from the sky.

I should already be taking God at his word, rather than allowing a seed of doubt to call the shots. What a dumb situation! God's given his clear words, to be treasured, chewed over, and lived by - they have to become more the foundation on which I build each day of my life, rather than just a slightly dusty book I pull down from the shelf to flick through every so often.

I need to be as willing to obey his written words as I would any words he spoke out loud to me, and I need to respond with the same urgency too.

How do I change?

Let God take me through his Word - be more prayerful as I read and study it.

Take the Word with me - learn it, recite it, turn it over in my mind.

Let the Word truly be my anchor and my guide - it's only in the light of God's revealed truth that I see what reality is, that I see how gross and wrong sin is, and how wonderful, and beautiful and blessed living with Jesus at the centre of my life is.

Stop talking about it and do it - enough said!