21 February 2009
What are the ingredients of a humble life?
I wish could write this from my own experience - "Humility: and how I achieved it" - but that's perhaps not the best way to be humble! Fact is, I'm still putting my boots on in the changing room at the training ground - and there's many Christians who I look up to as already playing in the World Cup Humble Final.
So these following takedowns on pride are things I want to practice in my life, and are taken largely from thinking about
Jonathan Edwards' resolutions. I'm putting them on my blog in the hope that they'll practically help me and others to see Jesus more clearly, the one who has saved us, as, by the strength of the Spirit, the cataracts of pride are cut away from our eyes, so that we might glory in Him and give praise to God our Father.
Pride stems from loving myself too much
Pride is a narrowing of my view on life, so that, at it's extreme, only one thing matters - me.
Solution?
Jesus commands right through the Bible that we love others, demonstrating what that looks like himself, and perhaps illustrating it best in the parable of the Good Samaritan. I need to get serious about considering others' needs before my own, and about not treasuring 'me time', because it selfishly corrodes my ability to love others.
Self-consciousness is just another form of pride
If I'm worried about what others think about me, then I'm proud. Not putting myself forward because I'm worried that others will think I'm overly confident in my own abilities stems just as much from pride as actually putting myself forward in confidence of my own abilities.
Solution?
Stop thinking about myself and think about God. Set out to please him, and put myself forward in weakness, knowing that it's only by God's strength that I'll achieve anything anyway.
Pride warps my view of where I really stand before God
Pride will tell me I'm saved by faith in Jesus, but sustained by my own fantastic abilities. I pray everyday, I read the Bible, I'm involved at church even though I also have a full time job. God must be really chuffed to have me on the team!
Solution?
Get my heart attitude sorted. I stand only because of Jesus, so keep looking at him, learning to love him more, asking for his help to know him better. Daily bring before him my sins, which are many, not leaving anything unexposed before him, and asking him to help me root them out, not just from my visible, observable, public actions, but from my mind and my heart. Put time aside to thank God for all the little things I would normally take forgranted - good health, a job, safety, friendship, shelter and warmth, a loving family, a great church. Stop flexing the muscles of pride in dissatisfaction, and get humility pumping the iron of thankfulness instead.
Pride turns me into a fat cat
If I listened to my pride, I'd never seek to change, never hold ambitions for future Christian work, never pray that God would use me greatly. After all, if I already think I've arrived, I don't need to travel any further.
Solution?
Paul says to the Corinthians 'Aim for perfection'. I won't get humbled looking at the celebrities in the tabloids, watching the heroes at the cinema, observing my colleagues at work, or even considering people at church. Nope. Perfection is seen in Jesus Christ alone, revealed in the pages of the Bible, but particularly the gospels. Yes, that's right, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John were not just written to help run Christianity Explored courses. They were written to give me a view of my Saviour, the one who died for me, and the one who calls me to die for him. My daily life must be saturated with constant consideration of Jesus' glory and humility, his greatness and his sacrifice, his position as my King, yet also as servant. I'll only learn to be humble if I learn to love Jesus and copy his way of life.